Was sold a Female did I get a Male?

[fishingurbanontario]

Hey everyone I've had this fish for 6 months now and I think I was sold Male instead of a female. I paid another $!50 ti have a female too. Let me know what you think this fish is. My fish are very cove because I got like 25 dithers in the 20 gallon tank with them so it's hard to judge by behaviour. I have a male which hates to be in his caved is always out and about for example. Let me know if you guys need more photos.